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" icy / cold-feeling world * sacred rare “bloom ceremony” flower that sustains the planet * nobles / princess / chosen ones * prophecy forcing main character to go to enemy side * enemy faction travels rarely by ship * boy kidnapped from opposing side * dual POV (“I” narration) * girl can absorb pain * brother can transfer pain to her * king injures son → memory/pain gets transferred to gi"