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"Sci-fi book about 1950s/1960s family with a bomb shelter under their house. The kids invite friends for dinner and a bomb threat goes off. Everyone goes into the shelter where they are transported to a dystopian world or reality in which women rule the men. Eventually, they are transported back to earth a few hours before the bombs go off, and are able to warn their family members of the pending disaster. "