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"I am looking for a book where the blurb explicitly states that the heroine's boyfriend leaves for the Army and leaves her a letter asking his best friend to look after her. The hero is a traumatized 'player' from a poor background, and the heroine is wealthy. The boyfriend is essentially absent from the first book. In the sequel, the boyfriend returns with a permanently damaged leg and is revealed to have a secret child."